WIN BACK YOUR EX BOYFRIEND'S HEART!

Do you feel like you just can't please your boyfriend? Like whatever you do or say pushes him further away? Is this an accurate description? Are you asking "how to win your ex boyfriend's heart back" all times of the day and night? Does he stay on your mind, even though you try not to think about it?

Then you came to the right place...here is the first steps that will increase the probability of getting back into your boyfriend's heart in a positive way, and possibly pave the way for his return to your love! You've got to be really serious about learning how to win your ex boyfriend's heart again, or you wouldn't be reading this blog.

However, if you are caving into the anxiety of loss, or the jealousy of possessiveness, you might be behaving in a way that drives him farther away, rather than reminding him of the special warmth you shared when you were together. Remember--No one in their right mind willingly embraces manipulation, bad temperament, or a controlling personality. It's simply human nature to reject that type of pressure. Focusing your energies directly against human nature is fruitless and futile. That type of behavior only serves as stepping stones for his untimely PERMANENT departure!

Let's be honest have you been texting--calling him 5,10,20-times a day or more? Slamming his inbox with emails? Are you pulling on his heart strings to make him pity you? If you answer yes to these questions & more, please stop...cease & desist now! If you are asking yourself, "How to win your ex boyfriend's heart" then you need to get a hold of your emotions right now and stop the insanity, as you are only hurting yourself!

Now then, how to win back your ex boyfriend's heart? Why not try a tested, expert & proven strategy instead?

This approach may seem new & strange to you, but it's the only chance you really have for your ex to even consider getting back with you...it will improve the odds of that happening drastically--if you are willing.

First step--Cut off all communication for a while, just tend to your business...do your thing. If you are still living with him, be civil--but quiet. Pay him very little or no attention and proceed with your own life. Do nothing for him nor against him. Stay neutral quietly while being happily progressive in your care of self, and treat yourself really well--both in his presence and out! Make that an unbreakable habit!

Now within the time of non-communication between you & your ex boyfriend--Focus your energies, time & talents on upgrading your personal life. apart from the current relationship problems. That may by challenging, and it takes a little discipline at first, but you will feel your progression grow stronger every day! Eventually, you will be free from those burdensome, depressing relationship thoughts. This will in turn, supercharge your feelings of well being.

Meanwhile, this gives your ex an opportunity to "shift-gears" in the way he regards you. Giving him time to experience the "loss" of you--Because you are no longer nagging, or chasing him down! You might even become a mystery to him in a way, because now he doesn't know exactly what to think or how he feels about your new attitude toward him. His heart may become curious (remember to work with human nature in this area, not against it), but give him very little to go on during this time.

This strategy has tested well and can very easily work in your favor. Here is where your ex has the opportunity to really miss you, which is otherwise NOT PROBABLE OR POSSIBLE when you were all over him! Remember this--the key to learning "How to win back your ex boyfriend's heart" or trying to repair a broken relationship is to work with the human heart, rather than focusing your energies against it.

Hopefully, you should understand how to avoid those nasty relationship-threatening mistakes that can so easily be avoided. By applying this basic strategy, you can reach a wonderful balance that gives your ex a chance to recall the reasons he fell in love with you from the beginning!

A Brief Recap-- Redirect your energies and create positive improvements both on and for yourself. Be still (peaceful & quietly tend to your business). Treat yourself exceptionally well. Avoid the temptation to stalk or harass him in any way. Make yourself mysterious and give him time to remember why he loved you. Don't make it too easy for him to come back (play hard to get--but not too hard ;-)! Allow him to make the 1st gesture--remember a man's heart is designed as "the pursuer" (recall the human heart lessons you've learned here), so let him be a man! You will become more alluring either way and you can stop wondering, "How to win back your ex boyfriend's heart".

Most of all, have courage...and know that those miserable feelings will pass!

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...and that's all she wrote,
Roslyn